Decision-Making in Small Teams: Why Everything Runs Through You
You're the bottleneck. Every decision waits for you. Here's how Santa Cruz business owners are delegating without losing control.
You've built a team, but every decision still waits for you. Staff ask permission for things they should handle themselves. Projects stall until you weigh in. Nothing moves forward without your approval.
This isn't because your team is incompetent. It's because you haven't built a system that empowers them to decide.
The bottleneck problem usually stems from a few patterns:
You haven't defined decision-making boundaries. Your team doesn't know what they're authorized to decide, so they ask about everything to be safe.
You've corrected their decisions before. Once bitten, twice shy. If you've overruled their judgment in the past, they'll stop making judgment calls.
There are no documented standards. Without clear criteria for "good" decisions, every choice feels risky to your team.
You move faster than they do. It's often quicker to ask you than to figure it out themselves, so they default to asking.
You actually like being needed. Honest question: does being the go-to person validate your role? If so, you're incentivizing dependency.
This pattern has real costs:
- Slow response times - Customers wait while staff wait for you
- Lost opportunities - Time-sensitive decisions don't get made
- Team disengagement - Smart people hate not being trusted
- Owner burnout - You can't scale if you're the only decision-maker
- Weak succession planning - Nobody's learning to lead
Here's how to break the bottleneck:
1. Define decision categories. Create three levels: decisions they own, decisions they recommend, decisions you own. Be explicit about what falls where.
2. Set clear criteria. For common decision types, document what "good" looks like. Give them a framework, not just freedom.
3. Start with reversible decisions. Let them own low-stakes choices first. Build confidence before delegating high-stakes decisions.
4. Support their decisions publicly. Even if you disagree, back their call in front of others. Coach them privately afterward.
5. Create feedback loops. Regular check-ins where they explain their reasoning. This builds judgment over time.
6. Let them fail small. Some decisions won't be perfect. That's how people learn. Protect them from catastrophic failures, not from small mistakes.
In well-run small businesses, decision-making flows like this:
Front-line staff handle customer-facing decisions within established guidelines. They know when to escalate.
Managers make operational decisions about schedules, processes, and resource allocation. They update the owner, but don't wait for approval.
Owners focus on strategic decisions: hiring key roles, major investments, long-term direction. They're consulted, not involved in daily operations.
The hardest part isn't teaching your team to decide. It's letting go of control yourself.
Your job isn't to make every decision. Your job is to build a system where good decisions get made consistently, whether you're there or not.
That's how you scale. That's how you take a vacation. That's how you build a business, not a job.
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